The Power of Opinion

I have always thought I was good at forming my own opinions and being confident in my beliefs. But I have come to realize that one of the most popular things to do nowadays is to base your opinions on what everyone else’s opinions are. Maybe it’s circumstantial, or maybe it’s a coincidence. Whatever it is though, it is happening, and it is happening fast.

Let me preface by saying having your own opinion and learning how to develop it is not a bad thing. In fact, it’s one of the best ways to build confidence and help you grow. However, you will never be able to grow into who you are meant to be if all your opinions are based on what others say they should be. The age of instant connection is a double-edged sword. It gives you access to whatever you want whenever you want it but also gives others that same access to you. It makes putting your opinions and beliefs on public display so easy, but it just as easily allows anyone to make them the target of hate or criticism. We live in a constant state of overload, trying to live while also not hindering others from living. Sometimes it just feels easier to say what you think others want you to say, or better yet, not say anything at all. How can we ever freely express ourselves if everyone is always trying to do it for us?

I think the answer is being secure in both the way you form your opinions, and in your introspection about how you have allowed such opinions to shape your life. There is a difference between justifying and believing. Justifying takes on the defense; it operates under the purview that opinions need to be constantly affirmed or else it becomes too easy to invalidate them. Belief does not face this issue. When you believe in something, you are deeply rooted in its validity because you have taken the time to build up the confidence in reason for believing it. It acknowledges the individuality of your opinions and supports the notion that they are meant to be something that you alone have built your life around, without the input of anyone else. 

Nothing stays hidden forever, the truth will always shine through in due time. We were made to be passionate about things that impact our lives. So instead of assuming that it’s better to blend in, or that what you have to say isn’t good enough, find comfort in knowing your opinions and beliefs are valid, and your true voice deserves to be heard.